Feeling to post up something which I'm enduring almost everyday in my life rather than posting something which I'm afraid on saying it out loud. Don't get any wild thought here, read thru the entire post...XD
I know I have just stepped into the primary level of being a young adolescent, but it doesn't on what we decide for our life, right? Cause sooner or later, we are the only one going to walk the path all by our own. We came to this world with a lot of unknown welcomes, even those from far related will give their blessings as they held us when we were an infant, but when the time comes which no one could never decide for their own, we have to walk that journey all with nothing but ourselves, alone...left with no one at our sides. But in the meantime, whatever happens in between our lives, could be decided, could be arranged, could be even discussed and compromised together for a better, healthy and happy living life. Not focusing on physical strength and fitness, but mental and emotional stability which makes us be able to understand, to honor, to know what are being said and expected, to reply in a certain manner to make the others to accept the point and facts being raised up and many more are the basics in life, the basic skills human first need to succeed in for a good relationship. And yes, the topic for today is again on couples before and after marriage where some even assumes it as his or her suicide attempt in their life. That's not true. There are a lot of great couples we can look upon to our idols in our lives, which could be passed on to our children and the cycle goes on and on. How about to those who witnessed the violence happened between their parents at home when they were young? If we were to point out and blame someone for this matter, it is not really gonna help us much in finding the solution for it. What I do wish it for parents to understand and respect each other and besides, accepts their children's decisions for what they wish to do with their future life, of course after talking it through with each other about it. Wouldn't it be nice if we know for certain what we want in our lives and what's gonna happen in future...???? hmmm...I wish...~
Monday, April 16, 2012
Monday, January 9, 2012
Perspective
Had a rough moments with mom and sisters today. Having exams plus these tensed up air at home is quite a lot to put up with. Things are just not going as I wish it would be, of course if every single wish comes true there wont be any problems in the world, right? The world would not be as beautiful as it is if there ain't differences in everything. Different races, ethnics, languages, cultures, way of life are unique as it is and besides it will be indeed a much fascinating place when people learn to see things differently. One can never predict whats gonna happen in the next hour, can never know who we gonna bump into, can never know if we might be ringed with some gratifying news or the other way round. There's always a small quote my mom used to tell me when I was young, " Life is too short, so make it sweet", indeed it is. One of my friend's lecturer met his maker on new year's eve; a college boy of mine, mere 18 yeas old died on the spot in a motor accident. Things ain't always the way we expect it to be, and yes it feels very frustrating to walk through those rough paths, thorny obstacles and (too much of metaphor) :P and fill in the blank...^^ "But there will be a point, at that very point you got to lead your life alone in the darkness. Without no shoulders to lay on, without a hand to raise us up, without any words to console our soul and without someone to hold back the tears...all are afraid of darkness, when its pitch black but it was never as dark when we shut down our eyes, and we still go through it daily...brace up people...there's nothing we cant do to cross the rough waves!" Accepting differences among each other is the most vital key to be successful in life. We can't change a porridge back to a perfectly cooked rice, but instead we could add on some additional flavorings to make it taste better!
Sunday, January 1, 2012
Some old memories
Well, we have successfully made thru another year...2011 long gone hours ago...and welcome 2012!
A lot of people would be listing down some new resolutions to be achieved throughout this new year, some may just keep it in their mind, and some doesn't even care about it at all! Life is all about having fun, meeting new people, making friends with them, throwing parties all over(not a common thingy in here), working hard to achieve something and many more...But nothing comes complete without a perfect strong bonded family ties. You see, different people have different way of expressing their loves to their loved ones. I have a friend who said, it's not a big deal being apart from his parents since its not something new in his country( he's from German). Personal thought, you would feel the emptiness at a point of time when it comes. Before its too late, why not we hold on tight with the bond made ever since we were young? You ain't gonna loose anything, will ya! By the way, New Year has gone quite dull here as for I'm having my 5th semester's final examination going on through out until the middle of the month. You would not believe if I tell all of you how i spent the whole night, by sleeping like an "arss" for not snoozing a single second the day earlier, preparing for my first paper on New Year's Eve! It's a different kinda experience though, things should be a little different than it usually is right, so it can be more spiced up more unusually... :P
Speaking on emptiness earlier, I chat with an old tuition friend of mine, who's currently majoring in medicine in Russia. It was such a happy moments where we were talking about those days with the whole tuition gang, it was havoc! That's the only word I can describe about all of them. If not mistaken, there will be 70 or 80 in total of us, and all's mind are as craziest as everyone. Especially History lesson, though HISTORY should be in a much boooring tone, but this was way much different. The class will never end without a single laugh out of the silly jokes the tutor makes. Epic moment of all time..Gosh, I miss those days, all the friend of mine, the innocent of me, the charismatic in me to study super hard to be much compatible among the others. Oh yar, I remember there was once during Teacher's Day celebration, I sang a song in front of the whole class. Kinda embarrassing, but it was soooooo cool! Not that I'm not singing at all now, I did a few performances as special invite guest for charity events held in my college, The Star Scholarship Ceremony held in a hotel and a few more...^^ Great talents are always found when you're young.
Conclusion, try not to miss any single sec of your life experiences as the time passed will never gonna come back again. Only if life is like the movie, 17 Again. Enjoy yourselves guys, take care of yourselves.
A lot of people would be listing down some new resolutions to be achieved throughout this new year, some may just keep it in their mind, and some doesn't even care about it at all! Life is all about having fun, meeting new people, making friends with them, throwing parties all over(not a common thingy in here), working hard to achieve something and many more...But nothing comes complete without a perfect strong bonded family ties. You see, different people have different way of expressing their loves to their loved ones. I have a friend who said, it's not a big deal being apart from his parents since its not something new in his country( he's from German). Personal thought, you would feel the emptiness at a point of time when it comes. Before its too late, why not we hold on tight with the bond made ever since we were young? You ain't gonna loose anything, will ya! By the way, New Year has gone quite dull here as for I'm having my 5th semester's final examination going on through out until the middle of the month. You would not believe if I tell all of you how i spent the whole night, by sleeping like an "arss" for not snoozing a single second the day earlier, preparing for my first paper on New Year's Eve! It's a different kinda experience though, things should be a little different than it usually is right, so it can be more spiced up more unusually... :P
Speaking on emptiness earlier, I chat with an old tuition friend of mine, who's currently majoring in medicine in Russia. It was such a happy moments where we were talking about those days with the whole tuition gang, it was havoc! That's the only word I can describe about all of them. If not mistaken, there will be 70 or 80 in total of us, and all's mind are as craziest as everyone. Especially History lesson, though HISTORY should be in a much boooring tone, but this was way much different. The class will never end without a single laugh out of the silly jokes the tutor makes. Epic moment of all time..Gosh, I miss those days, all the friend of mine, the innocent of me, the charismatic in me to study super hard to be much compatible among the others. Oh yar, I remember there was once during Teacher's Day celebration, I sang a song in front of the whole class. Kinda embarrassing, but it was soooooo cool! Not that I'm not singing at all now, I did a few performances as special invite guest for charity events held in my college, The Star Scholarship Ceremony held in a hotel and a few more...^^ Great talents are always found when you're young.
Conclusion, try not to miss any single sec of your life experiences as the time passed will never gonna come back again. Only if life is like the movie, 17 Again. Enjoy yourselves guys, take care of yourselves.
Monday, August 2, 2010
Dream
I had a dream yesterday, unusual among the rest of the dreams i had before this. Something which cherished me until now its still harbor in my mind deeply and resolutely. It was something like I have gone back to my school time, doing Form 6, met up with a number of my old friends...
At one point I was talking to a friend of mine and at the bottom, I could see a person walking pass the corridor, staring at me with a smile. I ignored and continue communicating with the person infront of me, just can't remember who the person in my real life was. My eyes were keep on catching onto the person, who clearly showing distracted face for me not looking. Its just not a normal dream, it made me happy and now, Im wishing it to become true...^^
At one point I was talking to a friend of mine and at the bottom, I could see a person walking pass the corridor, staring at me with a smile. I ignored and continue communicating with the person infront of me, just can't remember who the person in my real life was. My eyes were keep on catching onto the person, who clearly showing distracted face for me not looking. Its just not a normal dream, it made me happy and now, Im wishing it to become true...^^
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Drops of Pearls...
For its cold tear drops from the pitch grayish-black sky, accompanied by the thunderous lightning strikes as sharp as the tip of needles on the ground, so called its the glory of the Almighty Creator. Twisted thoughts of minds and souls, with curled up heart-breaking topics, solves by just standing under, fully immersing with it, with both hands open wide... face looking above, softness of mother natures' swifts away all the sorrows in my heart.
Its like a beautiful ryhme, playing gently as the evening breeze, my way of getting rejoice back again... How would I put these happiness into verbal? It will always remains in my heart forever and ever immortal as my spirits getting free after my final days... I love all out there who gave me all the positive and noble values in me, who gave full support and motivate when neccesary, who gave the warmth and love which hard to purchase...
This is a special dedication to all people out there, Me being a normal human-being with feelings untold and unspoken, its the best time when it RAINS...
Its like a beautiful ryhme, playing gently as the evening breeze, my way of getting rejoice back again... How would I put these happiness into verbal? It will always remains in my heart forever and ever immortal as my spirits getting free after my final days... I love all out there who gave me all the positive and noble values in me, who gave full support and motivate when neccesary, who gave the warmth and love which hard to purchase...
This is a special dedication to all people out there, Me being a normal human-being with feelings untold and unspoken, its the best time when it RAINS...
Saturday, February 6, 2010
Best Thing in Life...
We as the human being, who is called the homosapiens, have both ups and downs in life. Some may think why on Earth he or she has been born in this world by having just troubles and unhappy lifestyle while others lifes being happy-go-lucky all the time?
Basically, when people are gloomy and dejected or in despondent situations, they can't control themselves, unable to stop thinking on past and by not let going the sorrow out from their head, wish someone could find a best simple solution and methods to do that. Life is an adventure which has both happiness and depressions. For happiness, i don't think there will be people who do not know whats the meaning of it, but for depression,it means a state of low mood and aversion of activity. While other sources might just define it as the feelings or experiences of sadness, hopeless, helpless and a deadlock who fails to settle down an arguments and misunderstandings.
There is a reason behind this long, wide explanation regarding depress. As a young adult, who have not much responsibilities in life, yet, I got depressed after realising that, eventhough once being the Head Prefect of my secondary school, I dont have the most essential asset in every young teenage life, which is well defined as the person who welcomes each other's company, exhibits loyalty towards each other, be there even when himself in a tough situations, thinking of the soul who needs them in the harsh, desperate situations, a peer who shares and talks everything directly by not the other way round, a person who cares for other people's feelings and safety, FRIENDS!!!
Not all would get the oppurtunity to have atleast one good friend who always be there for all the time. Today, three circumstances proved it. One who just thinking of himself who rarely spend time outside with his friend, by even talking bad about his own parent, just because of his locked-up situation at home, by not even caring the other one have to travel by alone in a cab at night.
Another one, who promised to follow to go to KL together and all of a sudden, bringing a reason that his mother is not allowing him to go out but then, ended up by meeting him in Sunway Pyramid with other group of friends, which for him, going out with his family, like what he have mentioned to me early of the day through phone.While another one, who I have no anger before this, she who said going out will be exhausting as she always goes out with her family every weekend, I ended up by seeing her, with someone else. She was like shocked to death after she saw me, standing right infront of her, being speechless.
How do you aspect me as a young growing man feel??? Having no transport to come back home, friends who were making fun by teasing to buy the ticket for the cab, like they are waiting to chase me out from there...!!! Looks like Im using this blogspot as a place to release my sorrow. This is a kinda of depression as well. So, if u have a friend, a good one, never betray him or her. One of the most precious living thing on earth after your parents and family members are your friends. I wish i would have a bunch of them in future, although i do have some, without my own realization.
As a little advice, only accept the friends whi have realised on what he or she has done to others, pleding for forgiveness. Never look onto the one who have breaks our heart by knowing the sthate that it will be harsh.
Basically, when people are gloomy and dejected or in despondent situations, they can't control themselves, unable to stop thinking on past and by not let going the sorrow out from their head, wish someone could find a best simple solution and methods to do that. Life is an adventure which has both happiness and depressions. For happiness, i don't think there will be people who do not know whats the meaning of it, but for depression,it means a state of low mood and aversion of activity. While other sources might just define it as the feelings or experiences of sadness, hopeless, helpless and a deadlock who fails to settle down an arguments and misunderstandings.
There is a reason behind this long, wide explanation regarding depress. As a young adult, who have not much responsibilities in life, yet, I got depressed after realising that, eventhough once being the Head Prefect of my secondary school, I dont have the most essential asset in every young teenage life, which is well defined as the person who welcomes each other's company, exhibits loyalty towards each other, be there even when himself in a tough situations, thinking of the soul who needs them in the harsh, desperate situations, a peer who shares and talks everything directly by not the other way round, a person who cares for other people's feelings and safety, FRIENDS!!!
Not all would get the oppurtunity to have atleast one good friend who always be there for all the time. Today, three circumstances proved it. One who just thinking of himself who rarely spend time outside with his friend, by even talking bad about his own parent, just because of his locked-up situation at home, by not even caring the other one have to travel by alone in a cab at night.
Another one, who promised to follow to go to KL together and all of a sudden, bringing a reason that his mother is not allowing him to go out but then, ended up by meeting him in Sunway Pyramid with other group of friends, which for him, going out with his family, like what he have mentioned to me early of the day through phone.While another one, who I have no anger before this, she who said going out will be exhausting as she always goes out with her family every weekend, I ended up by seeing her, with someone else. She was like shocked to death after she saw me, standing right infront of her, being speechless.
How do you aspect me as a young growing man feel??? Having no transport to come back home, friends who were making fun by teasing to buy the ticket for the cab, like they are waiting to chase me out from there...!!! Looks like Im using this blogspot as a place to release my sorrow. This is a kinda of depression as well. So, if u have a friend, a good one, never betray him or her. One of the most precious living thing on earth after your parents and family members are your friends. I wish i would have a bunch of them in future, although i do have some, without my own realization.
As a little advice, only accept the friends whi have realised on what he or she has done to others, pleding for forgiveness. Never look onto the one who have breaks our heart by knowing the sthate that it will be harsh.
Friday, July 3, 2009
Berjuanglah bangsaku!!!
Wahai saudara taulan ku,Usah kau gentar akan bencana sekeliling,
Teruskan perjuangan ke arah kejayaan,
Walau apa jua onak duri yang menghalang.
Biarpun kilat dan petir melanda,
Biarpun taufan mahupun tsunami,
Lakarkan namamu di persada dunia,
Jadilah subjek percakapan ramai,
Jadilah permandangan mata orang ramai,
Walau apa jua kritikan diberi,
Masuk ke kanan, keluarkan dari kiri.
Asal dirimu dikenali benar,
Mahupun penghinaan, jadikan ia sebagai pujian,
Tiada sesiapa lebih hebat darimu,
buatlah yang benar, buatlah yang betul,
Ke jalan cahaya cerah curahan yang Maha Esa,
Engkaulah yang hebat buat selamanya!!!
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